reflection

when your partner starts to ignore you
when your partner chooses to tell his/her problem to someone else rather than to you
when your partner doesn't pay attention to what you said
when your partner doesn't put you at his/her priorities anymore
when your partner doesn't tell you about his/her day anymore
when your partner starts to.....
when your partner.....
when....
when.... 


think of those situations. You will say that your partner has something wrong. But, are you really sure? You might be say that your partner has an affair or he/she doesn't love you anymore. Once again, are you sure? Can't you think of the other possibilities?

It might be YOU. yes, YOU are the problem. The problem is in yourself.
You have something wrong that made your partner does those kind of action.
It might be you, who made him/her can't feel comfortable anymore.
Maybe you don't realize that you changed.
Maybe she/he hides something that she/he won't you to know.
Maybe she/he has painful memory of past that made him/her suddenly sad.
Maybe she/he has his/her own interpersonal conflict.
Maybe she/he couldn't do everything like you expected from him/her.
Maybe she/he doesn't like some of your actions, pretends to like it, but now can stand it anymore.

There are a lot of possibilities. Think about that. Have some kind of reflection.

Yes, before judge someone is doing bad, observe yourself first.